有时候突然领悟一些理由,道理或事情的时候感觉真好
就好像幼稚园突然学会1+1=2这种奇妙感觉酱
会感到世界多么奇妙
长大中经历的东西
可能会觉得残酷 无理 不可能 为什么会将
但是事情就是酱的一个模板
所以学会领悟个中道理就会令人突然变得聪明和开窍
对人事物也会有更深入的看法和意见
也就是我们常说的 成熟
因为刚经历一些事情
所以又上了一课
如何在知道真相后做下一步决定
控制脾气 诚实坦白问题的根源
这应该是最好的办法了
假如对方接受不了你的看法
也不要去勉强对方
最重要的一点是
不要去尝试猜想对方的想法
自以为是就是致命的要点
所以千万千万不要去猜想对方的思想与想法
做好自己的本分和顺其自然就好了
think possible =)
以下这篇文章
是我从我的伴侣那看回来的
很有意思
所以我就照原文type进这篇文章里 (因为我看的是照片=,=)
What is true love ? The true love is something that everyone wants to feel, but it is fact that only a little part of the people has the luck to meet her. What is actually the true love?
That is the most beautiful thing that can happen to someone, because that is one shared feeling. When you meet someone and fall in love with him that is not the true love still.
If this person shares your feelings that still is not the true love.
But it is true that this is the first step to the amazing feeling. The true love is something more than feeling in love. She is at the first place trust, because without him every relationship is fated and cant survive a long time. When you have trust in your partner you are anxiety-free.That must be shared because when the one person in the relationship believes in the other , but the other dont do this, this leads to problems and probably to broke up. The true love is a friendship. You must to can be not only lover to your partner , you must be his friend.
Your partner must be the man from who you can ask for advice and who you can say your secrets , because he will not say to no one else this things , he wouldn't be betrayed you. It is a true love when you can talk about everything with the person who you are in love with. Exactly the talking is the most important thing for the true love , because when the partners talk , they can find a decision to every problem , which they have. One big part of the couples breaking up , because to every problem , which they have . One big part of the couples breaking up , because they cant or dont want talk. When the love is a true love , she can survive everything. Every problem is a test for the feelings and strength of one relationship. The true love is help.
When you really love someone you are ready to help him right away and to do everything for him.
Of course this must be shared. The true love is care, because when you are in love with someone you make everything that your partner can feel fine and loved. When the love is a true love this fact automatically eliminates the egoism , because now you are not alone and you must thing about the wishes which have the person with who you are. When you love someone you want to make him happy. The true love means support too. The feeling when you know that by you stands someone who loves you and every time will support you, is really great. One love is true when the two in the relationship are frank and honest.
The true love is aspiration for acquaintance of the man who you are in love with. When you became well familiarize with your partner , you will find his entire blemish , but you must not aspire to remove them . If your partner's love to you is real he will make everything possible to remove them himself . When two people can make so that their character fit and when they can make compromises that mean that these people love each other and their love is true love . To find the true love means to find a perfect match for your half. The people are saying that everyone has a half somewhere over the world , but these who meet her are only a little part.
When the love is shared , she is a true love and makes you one better person and the world look like a better place for living. When you and your partner have the same thinking and the same conception for the life , you can be together a very long time . The true love is when two people want to spend theirs time together in loving each other and when their love survives all of the characters , which they meet during their life together . Furthermore , if the people are able to keep their love the same as it was in the beginning through out the years , you can say that this is true love. Remember that finding the true love of your life is really hard and you may need more than one lifetime to make that happen , but in the end it will be worth it. make sure that you will never stop searching for the true love , because there is not set date that you will find it .
现在我最想做的就是
让你快乐和关心你.
love u
